Defining the Types of Family Therapy and Their Techniques
November 4, 2024
When a loved one is in treatment for addiction, mental health conditions, or behavioral issues, the concept of “family therapy” might conjure up different ideas or images for some people — many of which may be negative. But what is family therapy, and what types are available? Do you have to attend? Will it be uncomfortable?
Understanding the different types of family therapy can ease concerns and affirm that this treatment intervention is designed for healing and support rather than discomfort. Change can be challenging, but family therapy can help family members come together around shared goals and gain valuable insights that benefit not only the loved one in treatment, but everyone involved.
The purpose of family therapy is not just to resolve immediate issues but to help families recognize patterns, initiate positive change, and learn problem-solving skills for long-term healthy functioning.
What Is Family Therapy?
Family therapy can take different forms. Sometimes it involves a single family and a counselor; other times, such as in family group therapy, multiple families participate with treatment professionals. It may occasionally include just the family members (and not the loved one in treatment); or, at times, the loved one in treatment may join the discussion alongside their family.
The Indian Journal of Psychiatry outlines three general categories of family therapy:
- Psychoeducation – educates families on behavioral and psychiatric conditions affecting your loved one, such as addiction, depression, anxiety, and other disorders.
- Family Intervention – focuses on specific family-related issues, like medication supervision, marriage and pregnancy counseling, job-related matters, and communication.
- Systemic Family Therapy – deals with family discord, major conflicts, emotional regulation, and other significant issues.
While most family therapy fall under these categories, additional techniques can help families heal and improve their functioning.
Types of Family Therapy
Within these categories lies a range of types of family therapy. Here are a few examples:
- Functional Family Therapy (FFT) – addresses child or adolescent behavioral issues to improve family functioning, parenting, and communication.
- Marriage Counseling or Couples Therapy – involves only the couple and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) to work on relational issues.
- Strategic Family Therapy – helps families make practical changes to enhance child development and reduce behavioral issues.
- Structural Family Therapy – focuses on core family interactions to change ineffective patterns.
The purpose of family therapy is not just to resolve immediate issues but to help families recognize patterns, initiate positive change, and learn problem-solving skills for long-term healthy functioning. In cases of addiction and mental health challenges, families can serve as a vital support system, fostering a cycle of positive reinforcement and interaction.
How Does Family Therapy Work?
So how does family therapy work? Especially when addiction is involved, family members often take on predictable roles in an effort to cope with their loved one’s condition. Though families differ in context and dynamics, many end up altering their behavior and playing a part that will help them survive and maintain a workable relationship with the other members. Beyond the Addict role, typical roles include:
- The Enabler or Caretaker – makes excuses and solves problems to hold the family together
- The Hero – overachieves to uphold the family’s reputation
- The Scapegoat – deflects attention from the Addict by acting out or taking blame
- The Mascot – uses humor or cheer to lighten the atmosphere
- The Lost Child – stays under the radar to avoid attention
Understanding these roles can be essential to the family’s healing. Participating in family weekends (if your loved one is in treatment) or a family therapy intensive at an outpatient or retreat center is a common step toward solving family problems and creating healthier patterns. These weekends or intensives can involve everything from psychoeducation to focused activities designed to foster compassion, understanding, and personal breakthroughs for family members.
Family Therapy Techniques
Depending on specific issues, counselors use a variety of family therapy techniques to help members communicate, understand, and resolve problems together. Common techniques include:
- Observation – learning to observe behavior, communication, and dynamics
- Reenactment – role-playing problem scenarios, with the counselor modeling healthier responses
- Collaboration – working alongside each other as a team for collective benefit.
- Strategic Planning – creating plans for potential setbacks and proactive solutions.
- Communication Training – learning constructive communication skills to reset family dynamics and create a positive atmosphere.
- Conflict Resolution – developing constructive conflict resolution skills to improve connection
- Emotional Regulation – learning to express emotions and cope with stress effectively
These techniques offer both short- and long-term benefits for wellness, relationship connection, and resilience in the family.
Private Intensive Workshops at Rio Retreat Center
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How to Get Your Family to Go to Therapy or an Intensive
Getting your family to participate in therapy or a family intensive can be challenging, Here are some helpful strategies:
- Communicate Benefits: Explain how family therapy can foster healing, strengthen relationships, and create a supportive environment.
- Address Concerns: Listen to any fears or reservations they may have and offer reassurance about the process.
- Highlight Professional Support: Emphasize the role of trained professionals in facilitating discussions and providing guidance.
- Suggest a Trial Run: Propose attending a session or workshop together as a way to ease into the experience.
- Create a Supportive Atmosphere: Encourage open discussions about feelings and expectations leading up to the intensive.
While jobs, friendships, and hobbies may change over time, family bonds are forever. By emphasizing the importance of your relationships and taking proactive steps, you can help your family see the value of investing in therapy or a family intensive, fostering a willingness to engage in the healing process together.